Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Our Prayer for the Women in the Democratic Republic of the Congo


Dear Lord,

We come to you today with our head bowed and our heart heavy because of the violent attacks happening to our sisters in the Congo. We are pleading their cause to an ungodly nation and asking that you deliver them from deceitful and unjust men. (Psalm 43:1)

Lord, we ask that you heal their bodies and souls and let them know that this is not their fault. Please sow up what the devil has ripped apart and let them find strength in you. Be not far from them, O Lord, because you are their strength, hasten to help them! (Psalm 22:19) Please remind them on a daily basis that you are a shield around them, their glory and the one who lifts their head up high. (Psalm 3:3)

Lord, we are laying this cause before you because your word says that you perform wonders that cannot be fathomed and miracles that cannot be counted. You have the power to set the lowly on high and lift those who mourn to safety. Please save these women from the swords in their bodies and from the clutches of the powerful. (Job 5:8-9, 11 & 15) We ask that you reveal your plan in these women's lives and give them a hope and a future that prospers their mind, body and soul! (Jeremiah 29:11)

Lord, we are also seeking your guidance as we do your work in this world. Please be a light to our path and a lamp to our feet as we take on this righteous cause so that we are at all times, honoring you, your word and your people. (Psalm 115:105) We pray for a heart of love, faith and hope so that we may save our sisters in the Congo.

We ask these blessings in Jesus's name, in expectation that it SHALL BE DONE to bring YOU all the glory Father! (John 14:12-14)

AMEN

Monday, March 16, 2009

Congo Women Fight Back!

Congo women fight back, speak out about rape

Victims shatter local taboos around talking about violence against civilians.

By Michelle Faul
updated 9:37 a.m. CT, Mon., March. 16, 2009


DOSHU, Congo - Zamuda Sikujuwa shuffles to a bench in the sunshine, pushes apart her thighs with a grimace of pain and pumps her fist up and down in a lewd-looking gesture to show how the militiamen shoved an automatic rifle inside her.

The brutish act tore apart her insides after seven of the men had taken turns raping her. She lost consciousness and wishes now that her life also had ended on that day.

The rebels from the Tutsi tribe had come demanding U.S. dollars. But when her husband could not even produce local currency, they put a gun to his head and pulled the trigger. When her two children started crying, the rebels killed them too. Then they attacked Sikujuwa and left her for dead.

The 53-year-old still has difficulty walking after two operations. Yet she wants to tell the world her story, even though repeating it brings back the nightmares.

"It's hard, hard, hard," she says. "I'm alone in this world. My body is partly mended but I don't know if my heart will ever heal. ... I want this violence to stop. I don't want other women to have to suffer what I am suffering."

Rape has been used as a brutal weapon of war in Congo, where conflicts based on tribal lines have spawned dozens of armed groups amid back-to-back civil wars that drew in several African nations. More than 5 million people have died since 1994. Women have become even more vulnerable since a rebel advance at the end of last year drove a quarter-million people from their homes and fighting this year left another 100,000 others homeless, according to aid workers.

Now some of the women are fighting back the only way they know how — by talking about what happened.

Breaking taboos
A campaign spearheaded by the U.N. Children's Fund is working with local groups to break traditional taboos around talking about the violence. They're using radio stations broadcasting in local languages, and more activists are getting to remote areas.

"Many more victims are coming forward. We receive a lot of SMS text messages and cell phone calls from women who have been raped and need help," says campaign leader Esther Ntoto.

Five months ago, U.N. officials began bringing together women to tell their stories to rooms full of local officials, community leaders, even children. One sign of success is that more men than women have volunteered for training to encourage victims to come forward and their communities to confront the issues.

Video footage of the campaign Women Breaking the Silence shows officials startled by the atrocities recounted. A provincial minister interrupted to ask reporters not to film a woman's face. But she took the microphone to declare: "I am not ashamed to show my face and publish my identity. The shame lies with those who broke me open and with the authorities who failed to protect me.

"If you don't hear me, see me, you will not understand why it is so important that we fight this together."

That woman, Honorata Kizende, described how her life as a school teacher and the mother of seven children ended when she was kidnapped in 2001. She was held as a sex slave for 18 months and passed around from one Hutu fighter to another until she escaped. She is now a counselor and trains others to help survivors of sexual violence.

One of the difficulties is the "huge problem of impunity," said Mireille Kahatwa Amani, a lawyer working at an office at HEAL Africa Hospital opened a year ago by the Chicago-based American Bar Association.

"It's difficult to prosecute perpetrators because they can buy off the police or a judge. There's no guarantee of justice," she says.

Still, with funding from the U.S. State Department, lawyers have interviewed more than 250 victims and pursued more than 100 cases. In 11 months, they have received 30judgments with only two acquittals. Those found guilty have been punished with sentences of five to 20 years in jail, Kahatwa says.

Her big success this year was against a man who has been condemned to 20 years in jail for raping a 6-year-old neighbor and infecting her with the AIDS virus. Kahatwa says the judgment came just a month after the complaint was filed, a record.

Surgery helps some wounds
Kasongo Manyema takes small, careful steps, fearful of unwrapping the cloth tied like a baby's diaper to catch the blood, urine and feces that has been dribbling from her body for 2 1/2 years.

She was 19 then, when men in military uniform attacked her as she weeded her family's cassava field.

A U.N. helicopter has brought her to HEAL Africa Hospital in Goma, where reconstructive surgery could help her incontinence and the stench that follows her and thousands of other Congolese women suffering from fistulas.

Fistulas usually result from giving birth in poor conditions. In Congo, they are caused by violent rapes that tear apart the flesh separating the bladder and rectum from the vagina.

Dr. Christophe Kinoma, one of only two surgeons who perform the reconstructive operations in east Congo, says there's a 50-50 chance that surgery can mend Manyema and others like her.

"Yesterday I did five fistula operations and we have more than 100 women waiting here and who knows how many out in the bush who never ever get to a hospital."

Kinoma says it has become the norm for armed men to use guns, knives and bayonets to rupture their victims' bodies. Sometimes they shoot bullets up women's vaginas. Victims often are rejected by their families, contract HIV, and are left to live in pain and shame.

In December, he operated on an 11-month-old baby raped by a 22-year-old neighbor. During one week in February, it was a 12-year-old girl who had been savagely raped by five soldiers. They stuffed a maize cob inside her.

Also treated last week was a 4-year-old whose mother sent her across the road to get something from a neighbor. She was kidnapped by soldiers and gang-raped.

"An American doctor who was here just burst into tears and collapsed. She couldn't believe what the soldiers had done to this child, just torn her body apart," he says.

Kinoma says he may be able to mend the physical damage, "but the psychological trauma never goes away for some." The hospital offers counseling but has no psychologists.

"The 11-month-old I operated on, every time she sees a man, including me, she starts screaming," he says.

The 4-year-old was infected with HIV, and they await results from a test on the 12-year-old. "If three, four, five soldiers rape you, you are almost assured of contracting AIDS," Kinoma says.

‘It’s like my brain is on fire’
The trauma that haunts these children and women also affects those who help them.

Hortense Tshomba, who has been counseling victims for three years, says she hopes to give them the courage to return to their homes. Many are rejected by husbands and fathers who say the attacks have left them "unclean."

"We try to counsel them as couples. For girls rejected by their parents, we try to intervene. Some families accept them back; others don't."

When counseling does not help, HEAL Africa offers lessons in sewing and handicrafts to teach them to survive financially. She says rejected women who don't get help often are forced from communities and become beggars.

"Sometimes I have nightmares," Tshomba says. "When I leave after hearing all these horror stories, really it's like my brain is on fire. I have to listen to some jazz to ease my soul."

But there are successes like 13-year-old Harriet, who came to HEAL Africa four years ago. Harriet's parents were killed by the rebels who attacked her and then burned down their home in Rutshuru, north of Goma. She now lives with a woman who counseled her at the hospital.

On this day, Harriet is so delighted she cannot stop grinning, a wide beam that's infectious in its joy. Her fingernails are black with dirt, but she is wearing lip gloss and eyeliner.

"Today, I got my results and I am top of my class," she announces, flaunting a report that shows she averaged 88.5 percent in math, French and English exams.

"When I came to HEAL Africa, I had never been to school. I was 9 years old. Now I'm beating students who have been to school all their lives," she says. "My teacher says I'm very intelligent, that I should go to school in the United States."

As for the future: "I think I want to be a doctor, so that I can help people the way these doctors helped me."

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29719277/

Friday, March 6, 2009

The Greatest Silence:Rape in the Congo (Official Trailer)

Heal Africa Hospital in the DRC

Where Do Your Donations Go?

HEAL Africa programs and initiatives are run locally, not instituted from a remote location with little understanding of the situation on the ground.

$10 Will:
Buy two hoes
Buy seeds for a garden
Provide a family with mosquito nets
Buy a dress for a woman in the fistula repair program

$20 Will:
Buy sewing supplies for a woman who has learned tailoring
School uniforms for two children
Provide malaria medication and medical treatment

$50 Will:
Buy rabbits for family who cares for orphans
Tuition and supplies for a child in school for 6 months
Support a literacy program for patients at the hospital

$100 Will:
Give a micro-grant and financial training to a family in extreme poverty
Train an activist in HIV/AIDS or a counselor for victims of sexual violence
Give a sewing machine to a patient who has learned to sew at the hospital vocational training program

$200 Will
Provide basic medication to a rural health center
Train two midwives in rural areas with lack of access to healthcare
Support a literacy program for patients at the hospital
Give vocational training and community support to a demobilized child soldier

$400 Will:
Pay for one woman's fistula repair
Pay for a child's orthopedic operation

$1000 Will:
Pay for Antiretroviral medications for three HIV positive children for one year
Pay for the tuition of a HEAL Africa doctor's specialization courses

$1500 Will
Buy a field for a widows group to farm
Support HEAL Africa's orthopedic officers program training rural nurses

$5000 Will:
Build a safe house for women, where women can spend the night in safety en route to medical care in Goma or on the way home, a place where women can learn new skills, have someone to listen to them, and be cared for.
Help build HEAL Africa's child soldier community demobilization program

DONATE NOW @ http://www.healafrica.org/cms/participate/donations/

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Stand with Congolese Women and Girls!

46
THE AVERAGE LIFE EXPECTANCY FOR A WOMAN IN THE DR CONGO

1.3
THE NUMBER, IN MILLIONS, OF ADULTS LIVING WITH HIV/AIDS IN THE REGION

800,000
THE NUMBER OF CHILDREN WHO HAVE BECOME ORPHANS DUE TO AIDS

20
THE PERCENTAGE OF CHILDREN WHO DO NOT LIVE PAST THE AGE OF FIVE


The people who have bravely shared their images with the photographers in this exhibition are experiencing the individual reality of the crisis reflected by these statistics. We invite you to show your support for the women and girls of Congo by joining our online gallery and being counted in their numbers.

Go to www.congowomen.org/stand-with-the-women-and-girls-of-the-drc/ and upload your pic today!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Women of North Kivu Clamor for Peace

(taken from www.healafrica.org)

There were hundreds of women who rallied together on January 9th at the main entrance of Unity Stadium in Goma to protest strongly together about the current peace negotiations in Nairobi, demanding a cease in hostilities and lasting peace.


They were standing up in lines without moving, communicating their messages in seriousness and those passing by were curious to read the words written on their signs.

One could not mistake the following message:

We are tired of this war; we claim peace, no excuses anymore. Why do we let ourselves be manipulated? Why are you killing your own brother? Let us love one another. May God bless DR Congo and may all displaced people return back to their home villages.


All of them gathered in a coalition called Congolese Women’s Voice. The women of North Kivu transformed themselves with the written phrases on their clothes claiming for peace, written in capital letters, both French and Swahili.

Messages were displayed in kiosks, on poles and on visible public places. Pedestrians and vehicles were stopping to look at the messages. Those passing by encouraged the women to continue to fight for peace. ‘We are exhausted of war,’ they said.

The voices of people rang out through the stadium: ‘Enough is Enough,’

The four-hour long protest included speeches from both Congolese women and men. The national press covered the event, which called on the Africa Union, the United Nations, and the international community to be serious about resolving the conflict in the eastern region of DR Congo because all parties have a vested interest in the rich natural resources of Congo.

People from refugee camps surrounding Goma walked 10-15km into town to participate in the rally for peace. They circled the stadium to sing songs of freedom and praises to God. Two prayers closed the rally, one by a Christian woman and one by a Muslim woman.

Both prayed that God would grant peace, and peace alone.

Love Is Our Religion!